Benefits of Mediation in Family Law

 As a family lawyer, I have litigated hundreds and hundreds of cases. No one is happy at the end of the case, but the parties who settle save time, money, and stress. Mediation offers litigants an opportunity to resolve a matter differently.  Below are several key benefits when helping my clients with mediation.

 

Cost Savings

Getting divorced in Texas can cost a fortune. I have seen many litigants deplete their life savings in family law cases. Many of these matters could have been resolved at a fraction of the cost through mediation.

Time Savings

When a case goes to trial, there could be major disputes about finances and children. This type of case could take weeks to try, drawing out one of the most painful events in a person's life, which can profoundly impact finances, job performance, mental health, other relationships, and overall well-being. Mediation means less time away from work, children, life, and the real moments that matter.

Once the meditator establishes a rapport with the parties, it is crucial to keep the conversation moving. Agreements on more minor points often lead to agreements on larger ones.

Format Flexibility

A judge has multiple cases on their calendar. As such, the judge will determine the day and time of an appearance and how the case will be heard. Mediation allows the parties and counsel to resolve the case much quicker by selecting a date. Also, in the aftermath of COVID, some mediators will allow parties to appear remotely. In some situations, the mediation might be a hybrid, in that some individuals appear in person and others participate remotely.

The parties and counsel will choose the mediator, which gives everyone a sense of control and confidence. The selection of a mediator is an initial step to begin thinking that this individual will move the case toward resolution.

Privacy

Divorce is one of the most stressful life events. This is a time to find ways to lessen the impact of this stress on the family. Divorce proceedings bring additional scrutiny and can enhance the anxiety associated with the experience. Courtrooms are open, as they should be. The setting is private, confidential, and more intimate and protected in mediation.

Parties should select a mediator that specializes in family law because they will have the knowledge and skill set to get the case settled. The best solution provides a foundation for future problem-solving. Parties who settle also tend to be more likely to co-parent because they do not have to “sling mud” in court.

Mediation saves parties money, time, and mental stress and helps resolve the case. Mediation allows parties to work toward the best potential outcome for today and the future.

Having an attorney with the resources and knowledge to give you the best representation is vital to your interest and the interest of your family.  You also want to make sure they will exhaust all avenues and be willing to research, pursue and implement strategies to provide the best possible outcome.

Rob McAngus, Partner with Verner Brumley Parker, P.C., is Board Certified in family Law and his practice is devoted primarily to family law, including high conflict divorce, custody cases, and complex property issues. In addition to being selected on the Board of Directors for the Family Law Section of the Dallas Bar Association; he values your priorities as a parent and works with you to achieve the goals that will help transition your family to a new normal.  As both an adopted child and a member of a blended family, Rob can provide a unique perspective in the practice of family law.

Rob has been recognized in Super Lawyers as a Rising Star in 2016 through 2021, and recently The National Advocates recognized Rob as one of the Top 40 Under 40.  He can be reached by calling 214.526.5234 or email at rmcangus@vernerbrumley.com.  Mr. McAngus received his bachelor’s degree cum laude and master’s degree from Baylor University and graduated cum laude from the Dedman School of Law at Southern Methodist University.